Man & Woman

You know, a friend called me this morning and we were just gisting and the next thing she started asking me this rather thought provoking questions and I was wondering what has that got to do with the price of fish in the market lol.... but I realised for her, it did have something to do with it o! In fact it has everything to do with the price of anything she wants to think about right now. Kai, na wa o! the things we get ourselves into, na wa! I'm sure she's not the only damsel in that situation, I guess it's a situation a lot of us find ourselves in one way or the other and at one time or the other. Why we do?? I don't know o! Funny thing is even the smartest, most intelligent of the damsels in town, when they get down to being truthful, you realise they've walked down that lane before too.

Questions:

Moments,
- What do you do when you think you jusy might really love someone? I mean you really do care about someone?
- When you're really not sure if they loveyou back in return and you can't seem to ask
- When all you want to do is just stop all the feelings.... but you just can't seem to find the strength
- When you just want to hear his voice, see his face, but he's just not available
- When you see his number calling your phone and you pick it in excitement, only to find out he just wanted to ask you a simple question.
- When he visits you and you have fun hanging out together and you think there's a spark somewhere, only to start thinking later, maybe there just isn't any spark.
- When you think he likes you very much, but then again, you just can't tell cos you really don't know....

My peeps the qs plenty o! and them just tire... me. I think they were just so on my friend's mind that they just came spilling out because she wasn't even waiting for answer o! she just kept going and going.... just talking, I guess she just needed someone to share her innermost thoughts and confussions with.

And me?? what did Moments have to say o?? In fact even I went into a state of confusion as I thought about these questions and my friend.

She's smart, she's intelligent, she's beautiful, she's got the figure. So, it's not about the fact that she can't have other guys or that she's lacking attention. It's just plain fact that she likes this one person so much and she's not sure she knows if he likes her back that way, or if their friendship will move on from there and that scares her now.

It's easy to listen and be judgemental, thinking.... how could you get yourself there?? what are you still there waisting your emotions, why are you still being his friend, why can't you just take the bull by the horn and ask him, why this why that.....

The truth?? It still doesn't stop the fact that that's where she's at right now and that those are all the emotions she's feeling and all the questions she's asking herself right now.

I think it's hard. Me I honestly didn't know what to say, I mean I didn't have a solution o! I didn't even have advise sef and moments na real madam adviser for those who know me well.... lol.... in fact some of my friends call me "counsellor" and others "shrink" but today, I was just "a friend", a "listening ear" I just so felt for her, I couldn't bring myself to be logical..... The best I remember saying to her is "just take it easy, you'll be fine".

Abi?? even at my desk now, I was just sitting here and thinking about it again and decided to come to blogville o! I know blogvile is full of wise guys and gals who might have a thing or two to say about this, an experience to share. At least this gives an opportunity to have your say or maybe even learn from what is being said.

Hmn... I just hope my friend doesn't stumble on my blog though, I'll be busted lol.... she berra not :-)), oh well and if I'm caught, I'll just say it was my way of finding answers abi now??

Anywayz, you guys, the floor is open..... speak out....